Instead, I watched a moment unfold two hours away—at my granddaughter Olivia’s house—when her mama, Crystal, captured a video of Livie discovering their tree and shared it in our family group chat.

The moment she spotted it, her whole body leaned forward with wonder.
Wide eyes. Open mouth. Slow, deliberate steps toward the glowing branches as if the tree itself was calling her name.

And then, of course…

The reach.

Crystal told her gently, “You can look, but don’t touch.”

That’s all it took for a tiny storm to roll across her sweet face.
A deep grunt.
A frustrated squeal.
A little foot stomp.

She toddled away for a moment—just long enough to pretend she was done—then circled right back again.

Her eyes lifted to the sparkle. Her fingers twitched.
And the cycle began again: desire → resistance → tiny rebellion → gentle reminder.

When she finally grabbed an ornament, Crystal immediately walked with her—hand over hand—back to the tree to return it.

It wasn’t punishment.
It was guidance.
It was patience.
It was teaching.

Something about that moment caused me to pause and ponder. Because watching her, I didn’t see just a toddler learning boundaries.

I saw myself.
And like Eve in the Garden, I saw every one of us who feels drawn toward things that glitter beautifully… yet lead us away from God’s heart.

Lesson 1: The Forbidden Thing Always Looks the Shiniest

It’s remarkable how many toys Olivia has.
How many safe, fun, perfectly allowed things she can hold and enjoy.

But the one thing she couldn’t have suddenly became the thing she had to have.

Somewhere deep in that tiny heart, the sin nature was already whispering the same lie Eve heard in Eden:

“This one thing is what will satisfy you.”

The longer Livie stared at the tree, the stronger the pull became.

Isn’t that true for us?

The more attention we give to temptation — the more we justify it, circle around it, admire it, imagine it — the louder it sings.

We rarely fall all at once.
We fall one lingering glance at a time.

Lesson 2: God’s Boundaries Flow from Love, Not Cruelty

There was such tenderness in how Crystal handled the moment.
She didn’t yell.
She didn’t shame.
She didn’t swat her hand.

She simply stayed close, consistent, and kind.

“Look but don’t touch.”

When Livie grabbed an ornament anyway, Crystal walked with her to gently put it back.

In that simple scene, I got a fresh glimpse of God’s Father-heart.

We often imagine His “no” as harsh—limiting, frustrating, even confusing.
But His boundaries are protection, not punishment.

They are the guardrails of love.

That tree was meant to be beautiful.
To bring joy.
To celebrate Jesus’ birth.

The boundary wasn’t about withholding good—it was about safeguarding it.

And God does the same with us.

Lesson 3: We Cannot Resist Temptation Alone

My granddaughter didn’t have the strength to resist the tree.
She’s only one year old.
The desire was bigger than her willpower.

In that moment, I sensed the Lord whisper to my heart:

“You’re no different, Jenny—except you have My Spirit helping you.”

We can’t resist on our own.
We weren’t meant to.

Just like Olivia needed her mama’s presence, consistency, and hand-over-hand guidance, we need our Father’s.

We need His Spirit nudging us away from danger.
We need His truth drawing us back from what glitters but cannot satisfy.
We need His mercy when we circle back again… and again… and again.

A Question for Your Heart This Christmas

As we enter this season with all its sparkle and noise, I find myself asking:

“What’s my Christmas tree?”

What is that one thing that keeps pulling my attention—tempting me to reach for it, even though it isn’t God’s best for me?

Maybe it’s comparison.
Maybe it’s control.
Maybe it’s worry, people-pleasing, resentment, or overwork.

Maybe it’s something no one else would ever guess.

But here’s the invitation:

Don’t just stare at it.
Don’t circle it over and over.
Don’t try to fight it alone.

Turn toward the One who loves you enough to set boundaries.
Turn toward the One who stays close, consistent, and kind.
Turn toward the One who guides your hands back to where they belong.

He isn’t withholding good from you.
He is protecting the good in you.

This moment with Olivia reminded me of how often God uses family milestones to teach me. Back in April 2023, after Caleb and Crystal’s wedding, I shared a post called Lessons From Our Son’s Wedding — a glimpse into the things God was shaping in my heart during that season. And now, as a Grammie, He’s still teaching me—through tiny hands, bright eyes, and moments just like this.

👉 Read that earlier reflection here:
https://jennyleavitt.com/2023/05/lessons-from-our-sons-wedding/

A Prayer for the Season

Father, thank You for loving me enough to say “no” when my heart reaches for what cannot hold me.
Teach me to trust Your boundaries, to listen for Your gentle guidance, and to turn toward You instead of circling the things that glitter.
Help me recognize temptation quickly and give me the strength to walk away—not in my own power, but in Yours.
Protect my heart this Christmas season, and keep my eyes fixed on what is truly good.
Amen.

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Grief doesn’t get “fixed.” It doesn’t run on a schedule. It doesn’t respond to logic. And it certainly doesn’t disappear.

If you’ve lost someone you love, you already know this. What you may not know yet is that you’re not walking this path alone—and that hope is still possible.

This post was inspired by insights shared in my latest YouTube video. If you’re interested in diving deeper into this topic, you can watch the full video here. Don’t forget to subscribe for more content on faith, grief recovery, and hope-filled living.

1. Grief Is a Companion, Not a Season

Grief is not something we “get over.” It becomes a part of us—a shadow that walks beside us, sometimes quietly, sometimes loudly.

Rather than forcing ourselves to “move on,” what if we allowed ourselves to move forward while still carrying the love and sorrow together?

“You don’t ‘get over’ grief. You learn how to live with it—sometimes holding it tight, sometimes setting it gently beside you, but always honoring its presence.”

✅ Gentle Practice: Write one sentence a day beginning with, “Today I carry my grief by…”
📖 “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted.” —Psalm 34:18

2. The Power of Community: You Don’t Have to Carry This Alone

Grief often feels isolating—but you were never meant to walk through it by yourself. Whether through a trusted friend, a support group, or a faith community, healing happens in connection.

Ways to gently engage with community support:

• Join a faith-based or local grief support group

• Text a friend and share one honest sentence about how you’re doing

• Attend a service, even if you sit quietly in the back

📖 “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.” —Galatians 6:2
💬 Vulnerability is not weakness—it’s the bridge to shared strength.

3. Faith in the Fog: When God Feels Distant

When you’re grieving, your faith may feel shaken—or silent. You may wonder, Where was God when I needed Him most?

But silence is not absence. Many in Scripture wrestled with this same pain. Your spiritual questions don’t disqualify you from God’s presence—they deepen your walk with Him.

🕊 “The Lord Himself goes before you… He will never leave you nor forsake you.” —Deuteronomy 31:8
🙏 Prayer prompt: “God, I don’t understand—but I still choose to let You sit with me here.”

4. Memory Is Sacred: Carrying the Past While Facing the Future

One of the hardest fears in grief is that we’ll forget. But moving forward doesn’t mean letting go of the past—it means bringing the past with us in a new way.

Ways to honor your loved one without “moving on”:

• Create a memory journal or scrapbook

• Make their favorite meal on special occasions

• Share stories of them with someone new

📖 “Forget the former things… See, I am doing a new thing.” —Isaiah 43:18-19
🕯 Memory is not a weight—it can be a light guiding you forward.

5. Hope Doesn’t Replace Grief—It Walks Beside It

Hope doesn’t mean you’re “better.” It means you’re learning to breathe again. It means you’re letting in light, even if it’s just through a crack in the door.

Let yourself hope in small ways:

• A sunrise that softens the morning

• A moment of laughter

• A sense of purpose returning, little by little

📖 “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him.” —Romans 15:13
🌱 Hope is not the absence of grief. It’s the whisper that says: “There is more ahead, and you’re not alone.”

🌿 Your Next Step Toward Gentle Healing

If you’re walking through grief, let me gently remind you: you don’t have to have it all figured out. You’re not failing. You’re learning how to live with grief—and that is a sacred, courageous thing.

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💬 Final Encouragement

You’re allowed to grieve.
You’re allowed to heal slowly.
And you’re allowed to believe that hope is still possible—even here.

Let’s walk forward, one sacred step at a time.

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If you’re grieving right now, this post is for you.

The weight of loss can feel like too much to bear. The idea of gratitude—let alone joy—can feel impossible. And yet, Scripture tells us that we can give thanks even here, in the shadow of pain.

This blog was inspired by insights shared in my latest YouTube video.
If you’re interested in diving deeper into this topic, you can watch the full video here.
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Let’s walk gently together through the truths that can carry you from grief to gratitude—not by ignoring the pain, but by honoring it and allowing faith to anchor your healing.

1. Grief Is Not a Lack of Faith—It’s the First Step Toward Healing

“There is a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance.” — Ecclesiastes 3:4

Grief is the body’s and soul’s honest response to loss. It’s not a spiritual failure—it’s a doorway to healing. By acknowledging your pain, you invite God into the places that hurt. And that’s where transformation begins.

Give yourself permission to:

• Cry without shame

• Feel every emotion, even anger or numbness

• Rest in God’s presence without needing to “fix” anything

2. Start Small: Practice Gratitude in Tiny, Honest Ways

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

You don’t have to be grateful for the loss. But you can begin to notice small glimmers of goodness around you. These moments do not cancel your sorrow—they coexist with it, giving you strength for the day.

Try this:

• Write down one thing each morning you’re thankful for

• Take a gratitude walk and name aloud what you see and appreciate

• Speak a short prayer: “Thank You for breath today.”

3. Remember: Gratitude and Faith Are Intertwined

“Every good and perfect gift is from above…” — James 1:17

When you start seeing even small things as gifts from God—a kind word, a warm blanket, a memory—you begin to remember who your Provider is. Gratitude reminds your heart that you are still held, still seen, still loved.

4. Gratitude Reduces Anxiety and Restores Peace

“…with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God… will guard your hearts…” — Philippians 4:6–7

In the middle of emotional storms, gratitude can be a lifeline. It redirects your mind away from fear and into trust. Science supports this too—studies show that practicing gratitude reduces anxiety, increases hope, and improves sleep.

Create a simple gratitude habit:

• End your day by naming 3 good things, no matter how small

• Say a “thank you” prayer before meals—not just out of tradition, but as a spiritual reset

• Keep a gratitude jar or journal by your bed

5. Let Gratitude Lead You Into a New Purpose

“For I know the plans I have for you… plans to give you a future and a hope.” — Jeremiah 29:11

Grief doesn’t erase your calling. But it often reshapes it.

When you choose gratitude, you slowly begin to see how your life—even in loss—still carries purpose. You might rebuild relationships, create something meaningful, or walk alongside someone else in pain.

Let God show you:

• New passions or paths to explore

• Ways to serve or connect with others

• How your story might offer healing to someone else

6. You’re Not Alone—God and Community Are Walking With You

“Those who sow with tears will reap with songs of joy.” — Psalm 126:5

This journey from grief to gratitude is not a straight line. Some days will still ache. But as you continue, you’ll find that you’re not alone.

Lean into:

• God’s unshakable presence

• Scripture as a source of comfort and truth

• Faith communities or grief support groups

• Others who understand the weight you carry

Next Steps: Take One Gentle Step Forward Today

You don’t have to “get over” your grief. But you can begin to walk through it—with gratitude as your guide.

Your healing matters. Your story matters. And you are not walking this road alone.

✨ Call to Action

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For many believers walking through grief, illness, or heartbreak, it’s a daily struggle to make sense of suffering. Yet Scripture gently reminds us that God’s plan is bigger than our present pain, and that He walks with us through every valley.

📺 This post was inspired by insights shared in my latest YouTube video.
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💔 Understanding God’s Purpose in Pain

It may feel counterintuitive, but the Bible is filled with the truth that God can bring beauty from brokenness. Consider:

• Romans 8:28 – “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love Him.”
  Even when we can’t see it, God is weaving redemption into the fabric of our pain.

• Pain may not be good, but God is. And He has the power to transform suffering into something meaningful.

🌿 God is Near in Your Suffering

You are not forgotten. In fact, you are seen more clearly than ever.

• Psalm 34:18 – “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”

• God’s presence is not reserved for our peaceful seasons—He draws closest when we are at our lowest.

When your heart breaks, His presence bends near. He hears every cry, sees every tear, and holds every shattered piece.

📖 Stories of Purpose in Scripture

Sometimes, the best way to understand God’s plan is to look at how He’s worked in others’ lives:

• Joseph – Betrayed by his brothers, falsely imprisoned, and forgotten—yet God used Joseph’s pain to position him to save nations.

• Job – A man who lost everything, but found that God’s nearness was his greatest treasure.

• Jesus – The ultimate example of purpose in pain. From the cross came salvation for the world.

These stories remind us that your pain is not pointless. You may not see the whole picture yet, but God does.

🛐 How to Build Trust in God When Life Hurts

Faith isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about choosing to trust the One who does. Here are practical steps you can take:

1. Immerse Yourself in Scripture

Let the promises of God reshape your perspective:

• Start with Psalms, Romans, Isaiah, and Proverbs.

• Write down verses that speak to your current season.

2. Pray Honestly

Tell God how you feel. Bring Him your confusion, grief, anger, or doubts. He can handle it.

3. Join a Supportive Community

Lean on your church, a grief group, or trusted Christian friends. Healing often happens in community.

4. Recall God’s Past Faithfulness

Make a “God’s Track Record” journal:

• Write down past times when God came through.

• Reread it when your faith feels weak.

5. Practice Letting Go of the Need to Understand

• Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us: “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

• It’s okay to not know the ‘why’—but you can still trust the ‘Who.’

🌺 Trusting God Doesn’t Mean Ignoring the Pain

Trusting God doesn’t mean pretending everything’s fine. It means anchoring yourself in the truth that God is sovereign, loving, and at work—even in your darkest hour.

Your pain has a place in His story. And that story is still unfolding.

📣 Call to Action

If you’re walking through pain and longing to trust God’s plan again, you don’t have to do it alone. I’ve created a free resource to help you find hope when you need it most.

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Have you ever felt frustrated with God—like your prayers are bouncing off the ceiling, your heart is heavy, and your faith is hanging by a thread? You’re not alone.

Anger towards God is a very real, very human response to deep pain, grief, and unanswered questions. Whether you’ve experienced the death of a loved one, a devastating diagnosis, or a long season of silence from heaven, these feelings matter—and God is not afraid of them.

This blog post offers biblically grounded, emotionally sensitive guidance on what to do when you’re feeling angry at God. It’s based on my most recent YouTube video. If you’re interested in diving deeper into this topic, you can watch the full video here. Don’t forget to subscribe for more content on faith, grief recovery, and hope-filled living.

What Does It Mean to Feel Angry at God?

Anger towards God often surfaces in seasons of:

• Profound grief or loss

• Unanswered prayers or prolonged silence

• Suffering that seems unfair

• Feelings of being abandoned or betrayed

While these emotions may feel shameful or wrong, they are deeply human. The Bible is full of people who cried out in anger, confusion, and despair—Job, David, even Jesus at Gethsemane.

Key Truth: Feeling anger doesn’t mean you lack faith. It’s often a sign that your heart is crying out for justice, healing, or understanding.

How to Pray When You’re Angry at God

The most powerful thing you can do is talk to God anyway. Let your anger become part of your prayer life. Here’s how:

• Be honest – Don’t sugarcoat your feelings. Tell Him what hurts.

• Use Scripture – The Psalms are filled with raw, emotional prayers. Psalm 13, 22, and 77 are powerful starting points.

• Write it down – Journaling your prayers can help you process the chaos within.

• End with surrender – Even when answers don’t come, trust can grow.

“How long, Lord? Will you forget me forever? How long will you hide your face from me?” – Psalm 13:1

Anchor Yourself in God’s Unchanging Character

In the storm of pain and anger, remember who God is. He does not change—even when your circumstances do.

• God is faithful (Lamentations 3:22–23)

• God is compassionate (Psalm 103:13–14)

• God is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18)

Looking back at the cross reminds us: God is not distant from suffering. He entered into it.

Gain Perspective: Trust God’s Bigger Picture

Even when life feels unfair or senseless, we can cling to truth:

“My thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. – Isaiah 55:8

• We see in part. God sees the whole.

• Even the most painful chapters can become part of your redemption story.

God’s plan may not erase the pain, but it can transform it.

How to Find Peace When You’re Still Hurting

You don’t have to feel peaceful to pursue peace. You can:

• Pray Philippians 4:6–7 – “Do not be anxious about anything…”

• Practice gratitude – Even in sorrow, small thanks can shift your heart.

• Let go of control – Peace grows when we stop demanding answers.

Take the Leap: Trusting God with the Future

Surrendering your anger to God doesn’t mean pretending you’re okay. It means allowing Him to carry it for you.

• Ask for grace to trust again

• Release the need for every answer

• Believe in a future filled with hope (Jeremiah 29:11)

Every emotion surrendered to God can become a seed of healing.

❤️ You’re Not Alone

If you’re walking through a storm of faith and emotions right now, I want you to know—God is still with you. And you’re not walking this road alone.

This post was inspired by insights shared in my latest YouTube video. If you’re interested in diving deeper into this topic, you can watch the full video here. Don’t forget to subscribe for more content on faith, grief recovery, and hope-filled living.

🙌 Your Next Step: Find Your Source of Hope

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📬 Plus, you’ll join my email community filled with others navigating grief with faith and courage.

Stay connected, stay hopeful, and never stop praying—even when you’re angry. Especially then.

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How does the church become a safe haven for the grieving? What can we do as believers to carry one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2) in times of sorrow? Let’s explore the essential role the church plays in grief recovery and how we can foster an environment of healing and hope.

Why the Church is Crucial in Grief Recovery

📖 “Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” — Galatians 6:2

Grief can make individuals feel isolated, as if no one truly understands their pain. The church breaks this isolation by offering:

✔ A community of support – A family of believers to stand alongside the grieving.
✔ A safe space for healing – Encouraging honest conversations about pain without judgment.
✔ Spiritual guidance and prayer – Strengthening faith during seasons of loss.
✔ Practical assistance – Helping with everyday tasks that can feel overwhelming in grief.

When the church steps in to embrace those who mourn, it reflects Christ’s love in action.

Creating a Safe Space for Grief Expression

One of the most meaningful things a church can offer is a place where it’s okay to not be okay.

💬 How can churches create safe spaces for grief?

• Grief support groups – Providing a dedicated time and space for sharing.
• One-on-one mentoring – Pairing those in grief with mature believers for personal support.
• Biblical counseling services – Helping individuals process loss with professional guidance.

By fostering open, judgment-free spaces, the church validates the grieving process and reminds people that they are not alone.

The Power of Prayer and Spiritual Encouragement

📖 “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” — Matthew 5:4

Grief can shake our faith, making it hard to pray or find peace. The church steps in as intercessors, lifting up those who are struggling through:

🙏 Prayer gatherings – Public and private prayers dedicated to those in mourning.
📖 Sermons and Bible studies on grief – Teaching biblical truths that bring comfort.
💬 Words of encouragement – Reminding the grieving of God’s presence and promises.

Even in loss, faith can be a source of strength, and the church can help cultivate that faith.

Providing Practical Support to Ease the Burden

When grieving, even the smallest tasks—cooking, cleaning, or running errands—can feel overwhelming. This is where the church can be the hands and feet of Christ.

✔ Meal trains – Preparing and delivering meals to grieving families.
✔ Help with daily tasks – Assisting with household chores, childcare, or transportation.
✔ Financial assistance – Helping with funeral costs or unforeseen expenses.

Acts of service demonstrate love in action, showing those who mourn that they are not forgotten.

Fostering a Sense of Belonging in the Church

Loneliness is a common struggle after loss. It’s important for churches to ensure that grieving individuals still feel connected and valued.

🔹 Encourage involvement – Invite them to join small groups, worship teams, or community service projects at their own pace.
🔹 Check in regularly – A simple call, text, or visit can make a world of difference.
🔹 Offer ongoing grief support – Healing doesn’t happen overnight, and neither should our outreach.

A sense of belonging is essential for healing, and the church must continually extend its love to those in grief.

Jesus’ Example: Mourning with Those Who Mourn

📖 “Rejoice with those who rejoice; mourn with those who mourn.” — Romans 12:15

Jesus Himself modeled empathy in grief. One of the most profound moments in Scripture is found in John 11, when Jesus wept at the tomb of Lazarus—even though He knew He would raise him from the dead!

✨ What does this teach us?

• Grief is not weakness – Even Christ, in His divinity, mourned.
• Acknowledging sorrow is biblical – We are called to share in one another’s pain.
• Compassion matters – Jesus didn’t just heal—He comforted.

When the church follows Christ’s example, it becomes a sanctuary of hope, reflecting His love in the most tangible ways.

Encouragement to Support & Seek Support

Grief should never be faced alone. Whether you are walking through loss yourself or know someone who is, the church is meant to be a refuge.

💡 How can you take action today?
✔ If you are grieving, reach out to your church community—you are not alone.
✔ If you know someone who is mourning, be present—sometimes, just sitting with them is enough.
✔ Encourage your church to establish or strengthen grief support initiatives.

📖 The church is God’s gift to the brokenhearted. Let’s make sure we embody that calling.

Join the Conversation

💬 Have you experienced the church as a source of support during grief? Share your story in the comments. Your testimony may encourage someone who is struggling today.

🎥 Want to explore this topic further? This post was inspired by insights shared in my latest YouTube video. Watch the full video here. Don’t forget to subscribe for more content on faith, grief recovery, and hope-filled living!

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💡 You are not alone. The church is here for you. Let’s support one another.

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How to Heal Through Grief with Faith

Healing from grief is a journey, and while everyone’s experience is unique, there are essential steps that can help you navigate loss with faith and hope:

1. Acknowledge Your Grief

• Suppressing grief doesn’t make it disappear. Give yourself permission to feel.
• Cry out to God—He sees your pain (Psalm 34:18).
• Write down your emotions in a journal or prayer notebook.

2. Lean on Scripture and Prayer

• Find comfort in God’s promises: “Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.” (Matthew 5:4)
• Set aside time each day for prayer and scripture reading.
• Meditate on passages that speak of healing and hope.

3. Find Community and Support

• Surround yourself with fellow believers who understand and support you.
• Join a grief support group at your church or online.
• Seek Christian counseling or coaching to help you process your emotions.

4. Embrace Small Steps Toward Healing

• Take one day at a time—progress in grief is not linear.
• Engage in activities that bring comfort, like listening to worship music or spending time in nature.
• Allow yourself moments of joy without guilt.

5. Hold Onto Hope in Christ

• Remember that your grief is not the end of your story.
• Jesus is our source of peace and strength—“Come to me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
• Even in sorrow, God’s love remains steadfast.

You Are Not Alone

Grief is painful, but healing is possible. Lean into faith, reach out for support, and take small steps forward. If you need ongoing encouragement, I invite you to join my email list for faith-based grief resources and exclusive support.

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If this post encouraged you, I’d love to hear from you in the comments below. How has faith helped you through grief?

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Having hard times in your marriage? Myron and I have had our fair share! Life-threatening illness, financial ruin, the loss of a child, drastic personality differences, wounds from childhood—the list goes on. Marriage has not been an easy road for us, and I’d be lying if I said we always got it right. But through it all, I can say this: I am so grateful for the 31 years I’ve been married to this man.

He is not perfect. I am not perfect. Our love is not perfect. But one thing has remained steadfast—his love for God. And dare I say, he loves God more than he loves me. That might seem like an odd statement, but it’s one of the things I’m most grateful for. Because when we were at our weakest, when love felt strained under the weight of grief and hardship, it was his love for God that kept him fighting for our marriage. And it was my love for God that did the same.

As we approach Valentine’s Day, I want to share something with you. It’s a song that beautifully captures what truly matters in a marriage—not the grand romantic gestures or the picture-perfect moments, but the quiet faithfulness, the choosing of each other day after day, and the love that endures long after the honeymoon phase fades.

This song makes me think about what really matters. If we are blessed with fifty years from now, what will have made the difference in our marriages? It won’t be the flowers or the fancy dinners (though those are nice). It will be the choice to love even when it’s hard. To pray when we feel hopeless. To stand by each other when life knocks us down.

If you’re struggling in your marriage today, I want to encourage you: Hard times don’t have to mean the end of your love story. Christian marriage help during hard times can bring hope and restoration.

And if grief has placed a strain on your marriage, you are not alone. Christian couples navigating grief can find healing and connection through faith. That’s why I’m working on a special resource for grieving couples. If this is something you’d like to hear more about, stay tuned—I’ll be sharing more soon.

This Valentine’s Day, let’s celebrate not just love, but the kind of love that lasts. The kind of love that chooses faith over fear, commitment over convenience, and grace over perfection.

I’d love to hear from you—What’s one thing you’re grateful for in your marriage today? Share in the comments. Also, if you’re looking for more encouragement, sign up for my newsletter where I share resources and insights on strengthening Christian marriages.

Wishing you love and strength in every season, Jenny

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Grief is a profound, often overwhelming experience that can feel like a relentless storm threatening to engulf us. For those navigating the tumultuous waters of loss, seeking solace and understanding becomes a vital part of survival. Amidst the chaos, prayer emerges not just as a ritual, but as a lifeline, offering a direct connection to God, our Creator. Let’s explore the transformative power of prayer in times of grief, providing practical tips, scriptural insights, and the comforting presence of God to help you through your journey.

Understanding Grief and the Role of Prayer

Grief, in all its forms, can be one of the most isolating experiences a person can endure. The loss—whether of a loved one, a relationship, or even a way of life—leaves indelible marks on our hearts. In such moments, prayer provides an avenue to express our deepest pains and connect with a divine presence that truly understands our suffering. It’s more than a routine; it’s a means of seeking and experiencing God’s comfort and guidance.

The Comfort of God’s Presence in Times of Grief

In the throes of grief, it’s easy to feel alone and misunderstood. Yet, Psalms 34:15 reassures us:

“The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous, and his ears are attentive to their cry.”

This scripture reminds us that God is always present, listening to our cries and understanding our pain like no one else can. Engaging in prayer allows us to pour out our raw, unfiltered emotions, providing a sense of release and comfort. Even when words fail us, Romans 8:26 promises that the Holy Spirit intercedes on our behalf, articulating our unspoken grief to God.

Practical Ways to Connect with God in Prayer

Navigating grief through prayer can take different forms. Here are some practical ways to deepen your connection with God:

✅ Be Honest: Authenticity in prayer is crucial. Express your true feelings, no matter how raw. God can handle your honesty, and it’s a step towards genuine healing.

✅ Pray Using Scripture: The book of Psalms is filled with heartfelt prayers that capture a range of human emotions. Psalms 13, for instance, transitions from questioning God’s presence to reaffirming trust in His love. Using scripture in prayer provides both comfort and a framework for your prayers.

✅ Listen: Prayer is a two-way conversation. Take time to be still and receptive to God’s voice. This quiet time can offer peace and direction amidst the chaos of grief.

✅ Invite Others: The strength found in community and shared prayer cannot be overstated. When you’re overwhelmed, inviting others to pray with and for you can provide significant support, reminding you that you are not alone.

The Strength of Community and Shared Prayer

There’s immense power in communal prayer, especially during periods of profound loss. Inviting friends, family, or a faith community to join you in prayer not only lightens your burden but also envelops you in a collective embrace of support.

Shared prayer creates a network of spiritual strength, providing a tangible sense of God’s presence through the love and prayers of others. This connection can be the anchor that steadies you when the storm of grief feels overwhelming.

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Final Thoughts: Embracing Divine Comfort

Grieving is undeniably challenging, but through prayer, we can access a source of divine comfort that profoundly nurtures our spirits. Whether through honest expression, scriptural engagement, quiet listening, or the strength of community, prayer offers a unique and powerful avenue to navigate grief.

May you find peace in God’s presence, knowing that you are never alone in your suffering. Let prayer be the lifeline that guides you through the storm, leading you towards healing and peace.

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The sudden loss of a loved one leaves a void that seems impossible to fill. When our 17-year-old son, Jacob, was tragically killed by a drunk driver, our family was thrust into an indescribable season of grief. His older brother, Caleb, survived the accident but faced a long and painful recovery. Amid this heartbreak, the questions came in waves: Why, God? How could this happen?

This blog shares our personal journey through grief, offering hope to those walking similar paths. If you are searching for comfort and healing, we pray our story inspires you to find God in the midst of your suffering.

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The Immediate Aftermath: Coping with Trauma

In the days following Jacob’s death, life felt shattered. Grieving while supporting Caleb’s recovery overwhelmed us with pain and uncertainty. Even routine activities became monumental challenges. Our church community surrounded us with love, but the depth of our grief left us struggling to find purpose.

How We Began to Cope:

• Leaning on Community: Friends and church members brought meals, prayed for us, and provided emotional support.
• Prioritizing Small Wins: Simple tasks like journaling or reading a comforting scripture felt like victories.
• Acknowledging Emotions: Allowing ourselves to grieve freely helped us face the loss authentically.

Faith Under Fire: Wrestling with Doubt

As Christians, we’d always leaned on our faith during hardships. But this tragedy tested everything we believed. Questions like “Why would a loving God allow this?” invaded our thoughts. The battle with doubt could be fierce at times, but we learned that questioning God is not the same as abandoning Him.

Key Scriptures That Spoke to Us:

• Psalm 34:18: “The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.”
• Isaiah 41:10: “Do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.”

These verses reminded us that God’s presence doesn’t eliminate pain but provides strength to endure it.

Finding Divine Comfort

In our darkest moments, we felt God’s quiet presence. Comfort came through prayer, worship, and His Word. The Holy Spirit ministered to us in ways we hadn’t experienced before. The scriptures became anchors, grounding us when waves of despair threatened to pull us under.

Steps Toward Healing Through Faith:

1. Immerse Yourself in Scripture: Daily reading helped us internalize God’s promises.
2. Pray Honestly: Sharing our raw feelings with God deepened our connection to Him.
3. Worship in Grief: Songs of faith reminded us of God’s goodness, even in sorrow.

Transforming Grief into Testimony

As healing began, we felt called to share our story. Opening up about Jacob’s death and Caleb’s recovery became a way to honor Jacob’s memory and glorify God’s redemptive power. Through writing, speaking, and community outreach, our pain found purpose.

How Sharing Your Story Helps:

• It validates your emotions and encourages others facing loss.
• It transforms your grief into a ministry of hope.
• It reminds others that they are not alone in their suffering.

Inviting God Into Brokenness

The most profound lesson we learned is that God desires our broken hearts, not perfection. He meets us in our pain and promises restoration. Jeremiah 30:17 declares, “For I will restore health to you, and your wounds I will heal, declares the Lord.” Trusting this truth has been a cornerstone of our healing.

Call to Action: Finding Your Own Hope

Are you struggling to find hope after loss? We encourage you to lean into God’s promises. Allow Him to transform your pain into peace and your grief into joy.

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